Why You’re Struggling to Attract Clients
By: Bonnie Sorsby
It’s Not Just Strategy. It’s Energy + Clarity.
You’re showing up.
You’re posting, tweaking offers, maybe even testing out all the marketing strategies the online gurus swear by.
But the clients?
Crickets. Or worse... clients who don’t feel aligned, drain your energy, or disappear after a discovery call.
Here’s the truth no one tells you when you start a business:
It’s not just about doing more, posting everywhere, or lowering your prices.
If you’re not attracting the right clients (or any at all), it’s likely two things:
Lack of clarity and misaligned energy.
Let’s break that down.
You Don’t Have a Marketing Problem... You Have a Clarity Problem
Most entrepreneurs skip the foundational work of truly defining who they’re speaking to.
They create offers, websites, and content without a clear picture of their ideal client.
When you’re talking to everyone, you’re connecting with no one.
Your messaging gets vague. Your offers feel generic. And your energy? Scattered.
The first step to attracting aligned clients is knowing exactly who you’re calling in and what they desire, what they struggle with, and how they want to feel after working with you.
If you’ve never done deep ideal client work (or it’s been a while), this is where everything shifts.
Grab my free resource, the Brand Foundations Workbook, and I’ll guide you through the essential steps to get clear on who you’re meant to serve based on your current understanding so you can learn how to speak directly to them.
The Energetics Behind Client Attraction
Even with clarity, there’s another layer most people ignore: your energy.
You can have the best strategy in the world, but if your energy is saying:
“I’m desperate for clients”
“I hope someone picks me”
“I’ll take anyone who says yes”
…you’ll either repel the right people or attract misaligned ones.
Client attraction isn’t just tactical, it’s energetic.
When you’re aligned with your purpose, clear on your value, and showing up from a place of confidence (not scarcity), your presence speaks louder than any algorithm.
Things to reflect on:
Are you setting boundaries, or over-giving to prove your worth?
Are you calling in clients who respect your energy, or ones who drain it?
Are you embodying the version of yourself that naturally attracts the people you want to work with?
Stop Forcing Strategies That Don’t Fit Your Energy
Let’s be honest... the online space is loud.
Everyone’s telling you where and how to show up:
“You need to be on Instagram.”
“No, start a YouTube channel.”
“Actually, email marketing is king.”
The truth of the matter is not every strategy is meant for you.
If you’re forcing yourself to show up on platforms that drain you, or following visibility tactics that clash with your natural energy, you’ll burn out fast… and your audience will feel it.
Whether you follow Human Design, astrology, or just know how your energy flows best, alignment matters.
Not sure where you should be showing up?
Take my free quiz to discover the best platform for your energy and business style
Alignment Over Hustle: How to Actually Attract the Right Clients
If you’re tired of guessing, tired of forcing strategies, and wondering why things aren’t clicking? It’s time to shift from hustle to alignment.
Here’s where to start:
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Get clear on who you’re speaking to.
Download The Free Brand Foundations Workbook and define who you’re here to serve. -
Show up where your energy naturally shines.
Take the quiz and stop wasting time on platforms that don’t suit you.
And if you’re beyond the freebies and ready to align your entire business with your purpose?
I offer a premium experience called the Soul Purpose Activation designed for entrepreneurs who are ready to cut through the noise, gain deep clarity, and align their brand, messaging, and strategy in a way that feels true to who they are.
This isn’t a course or a template. It’s personalized, high-level guidance to help you step fully into the business you’re meant to build.
[Explore The Soul Purpose Activation]
Business gets easier when you stop trying to fit into strategies that were never designed for you.
Start with clarity.
Align your energy.
And watch how the right clients start showing up.
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